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Stop Unwanted Sexual Behaviors - Embrace Integrity - Live Your Truth - Embody Your Mission

“The hunter is always approaching.  There is never a moment when I can relax. I must stay guarded lest [I am ever found out]. I am alone in the most complete way.”

John Bradshaw, Healing the Shame that Binds You

If You’ve Been Enslaved by Pornography, Hid Behaviors to Avoid Getting Caught, Promised Yourself Countless Times to Stop Only to Do It Again, Watched as Your Most Important Relationships Crumble, or Simply Have Not Been Living or Leading In Ways You Know You Are Capable Of Consider This...

What you think is a problem isn't the problem.

Approaching the REAL problem from a holistic Mind, Body, Heart, and Soul center creates powerful neurological changes that can liberate you from your unwanted behaviors.  

You Are Not Alone

  • Millions of men are sabotaged by the lie that they are not enough - not strong enough, smart enough, rich enough, fit enough, etc. As a result, they find themselves engaging in behaviors that simultaneously numb the pain and increase the sense of unworthiness. 

  • Millions of Men wallow in past mistakes.  Shame is their constant companion.  They live in fear that their past is going to be revealed to the world and the outcome will be devastating. They pull away and hide from others. They believe they are the only ones struggling and would be judge harshly if anyone found out.


  • Millions of Men are dissatisfied or bored even after having pursued what they hoped would be mind-blowing fun. Instead, they drown in numbing behaviors. Efforts to stop feel futile.  They feel trapped in a never-ending cycle of numbing with drugs or alcohol or porn or video games or food or work that only leads to further shame and disconnection.


  • Millions of Men run from connection with family and friends. They bury their face in electronic devices. They avoid going home to be with their family or use their family as an excuse for why they can't connect with others.

  • Millions of Men battle with rage, even if just under the surface. They attempt to bottle up their anger, pretend they are not afraid, and never let anyone see them sad. But then, it comes out anyway, often in messy and destructive ways. 


Join a group of men learning new strategies to find the freedom to live lives of confidence, joy, passion, and connection

There is a proven method to break free from the chains of sexually compulsive behavior for good.

Imagine smiling at yourself in the mirror and loving the guy you see looking back!

Imagine living in integrity, not having to cover your tracks any longer!

Imagine having clarity of mind, better memory, the ability to manage your emotions, bonding with your loved ones!

The Path to Freedom program is an education-based Mastermind Program grounded in the decades of research done by Patrick Carnes,  Rob Weiss, Don Hilton, Jay Stringer,  and other researchers along with ancient methods of overcoming unwanted compulsive sexual behaviors. The Path to Freedom Mastermind includes online video instruction and tasks to help men progress in recovery.  The Mastermind provides templates, tools, and accountability to help participants achieve their desired outcomes while using the Finding Peace Model.



Identify your purpose, develop goals, and execute a plan of action to achieve real results.


Join a team of fellow men making changes together.


Determine what you need and what holds you back. Eliminate excuses. Expand your vision.


Build connections with family, friends, business associates, and yourself

Who is it for?

  • Men who want to thrive as a man, husband, partner, father, or brother.

  • Men striving to live at the highest level of integrity.

  • Men in or want to be in a committed relationship.

  • Men who are willing to be 100% honest.

  • Men who are change agents and find value in serving others.

  • Men who invest in their personal growth. 

  • Humble men willing to receive feedback from others.  

What is Included?

In the 12-month Path to Freedom Mastermind, you will receive:

  • Weekly Mastermind Live Coaching Sessions

  • The Path to Freedom Online Curriculum

    • It includes short videos, exercises, and additional content, providing a comprehensive roadmap to finding freedom from sexual addiction

  • How Firm is Your Foundation Assessment and 6-month Personal Goal Planning Guide 

  • An online community in The Finding Peace Path to Freedom Private Group

    • In this group, you’ll have access to information, guidance, and connection with a small band of brothers and a connection with a trauma and recovery specialist. Access the group whenever and wherever you have an internet connection. How you identify yourself or how much personal information you share is entirely up to you.


I lived a lifetime of sex addiction that ultimately led to drug addiction, an arrest for possession of an illegal substance, and suspension from work.


I now have 18 months of sobriety from my active addictions and I'm able to return to work and resume my career. I have stabilized my personal and professional relationships, and I am living a life of integrity and trustworthiness. I no longer suffer from depression, and I have regained full cognitive abilities at a greater clarity than I've ever had in my life.

I have gained great insight into the understanding of what caused and perpetuated my active addictions, and I have been able to identify and transform the fundamental characteristics that drove them. I have done this through the material in the program and the very strong connections I've made that was facilitated by Troy's leadership and precedent of deep caring and unconditional positive regard. Troy has taught me a great deal about how to express and communicate love.

Finally for the first time in my life I am free to be who I really am, who I've always wanted to be.

David P. Canada

Are you Ready to...

  • Master your THOUGHTS and ACTIONS to live the life you truly want

  • Develop a master action plan to hard-wire freedom

  • Use the latest in cutting edge technology to re-wire the brain and proactively master your triggers 

  • Transition from white-knuckling to empowered living

  • Experience CLARITY of mind and PEACE of conscience

  • Learn a powerful “hack” to stop shame in its tracks

  • Learn tools to heal past hurts and live more presently in the now

  • Use your hardwired survival instincts to reinforce positive actions

  • Retrain your mind to automatically choose healthier options that keep your integrity intact

  • Restore TRUST with your partner and create a healthy intimate connection.

Schedule a Meeting with Us Now to Get Started

The Path to Freedom Mastermind
is a 12-month program
with $250 monthly investment

Course Curriculum Includes

Preparing for the Journey

  • Five Ways to Ground in Five Minutes or Less

  • Introduction to Mindfulness

  • Exploring Mindfulness Further

  • The Five Hindrances to Progress

  • What is on the Top of the Mountain?

  • Finding Peace Overview

  • Window of Tolerance

  • Stages of Change

  • How Firm is Your Foundation?

  • Fuel for the Brain - Fuel for the Body

  • Dailies

  • The List of 12

  • Additional Resources to Find Support

  • Hypnotic Relaxation Recording

  • Weekly Checklist

  • Move It!

Introduction to Betrayal Trauma

  • Understanding Betrayal Trauma Part One

  • Understanding Betrayal Part Two

  • Understanding Betrayal Part Three

  • Childhood Attachment Wounds and How They Can Be Triggers for Relationship Strife


  • Trust Quotient Inventory

Caught Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea

  • What's Happening in the Brain?

  • Brain, Heart, World

  • 90-Day Challenge

  • Charting A Course Through Perilous Waters


  • Avoiding the Cliffs

Looking in the Wake

  • Wound Assessment

  • Family Stories

  • Core Beliefs

  • Core Emotions

  • Triangulation

Batten Down the Hatches

  • Core Needs

  • Intro to the Shadows of Shame

  • The Shame Two-Step

  • The Impotent One and Futility

  • The Rebel and the Royal - How they Help Us Objectify Others

  • Deprivation

  • A Shame Resilience Strategy

  • Numbing and Mutated Emotions

  • The Addiction Cycle

  • My Addiction History

  • Letters to the Shadows

  • Seeing the Truth Behind Our Lust

  • Finding Peace Worksheet

Finding the Treasure

  • Discovering the Treasure

  • Saying Goodbye, Saying Hello

  • My New Truth

  • Letter to the Past