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Embrace Your Purpose - Deepen Your Connections - Live Your Truth

“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”

Henry David Thoreau 

One-third of men regularly feel lonely, left out, and unknown.  


You can feel it, can't you? That deep yearning to live a life of deeper significance. We want to be better lovers, providers, and leaders. We want to be better men. The problem is we try to prove we are man enough all on our own. We struggle to reach out for support and mentorship from other men for fear of appearing weak.  

You might be a man living a life of quiet desperation if...

  • You are sabotaged by the lie that you are not enough - not strong enough, smart enough, rich enough, fit enough, etc. AND you believe there isn't anything you can do about it. As a result, you drown in excuses,  and nothing happens. 

  • You wallow in past mistakes.  Shame is your constant companion.  You live in fear that your past is going to be revealed to the world and the outcome will be devastating. You pull away and hide from others. You believe you are the only one struggling and would be judge harshly if anyone found out.


  • You are dissatisfied or bored even after having pursued a career with success and have financial stability. 


  • You have fallen into the trap of imposter syndrome.  You doubt your own abilities and talents. You feel like a faker and are convinced that one day someone is going to figure out that you don't actually know what you are pretending to know. This doubt holds you back from achieving your full potential and you end up settling 


  • You are drowning in numbing behaviors. Efforts to stop acting out feel futile.  It's a never-ending cycle of numbing with drugs or alcohol or porn or video games or food or work that only leads to further shame and disconnection.


  • You run from connection by burying your face in your electronic device. You avoid going home to be with your family (or use your family as an excuse for why you can't connect with others even though all you are doing is sitting in front of the television), spend excessive amounts of time at work because its the only place where you feel like you have any influence. You stop taking risks. You avoid vulnerability.


  • You long for a deeper spiritual connection with your Higher Power, your lover, your families, and other men who are on the spiritual path but can't seem to find others willing to be real, authentic, honest, and straight-forward with you. You feel hopeless that any kind of deeper, grounded, a connection is even possible. 

Are YOU living a life of quiet desperation? 

Don't be one of the masses!

What would your life be like if...


You had A group of authentic, honest, and courageous men supported you in becoming your best self?

You had men invested in your success and will hold you accountable on a weekly basis?

 you had a team of trusted advisors who offer perspective, encouragement, and assistance?

Consider some of the most successful men in history.  These men had authentic, honest, and courageous relationships with other men.  We were born to battle life together.  The truth is men thrive when we support each other.



Identify your purpose, develop goals, and execute a plan of action to achieve real results.


Join a team where you and your fellow group members make changes together.


Determine what you need and what holds you back. Eliminate excuses. Expand your vision.


Share your gifts, insights, and perspective with your group.  Support and encourage each other.

Who is it for?

Men who want to thrive as a man, husband, partner, father, and brother.

Men striving to live at the highest level of integrity.

Men in or want to be in a committed relationship.

Men who are willing to be 100% honest.

Men who are change agents and find value in serving others.

Men who invest in their personal growth. 

Humble men willing to receive feedback from others.  

Who is it not for?

Guys who only want to focus on themselves.

Guys who don't show up or follow through.

Guys who won't be honest.

Guys who won't take ownership.

Guys who won't invest in themselves.

How Does it Work?

  • Video conference calls facilitated by Troy L Love will be held once per week for 60 minutes for the first three weeks of the month.

  • Each week, a group member has an opportunity to sit in the "hot seat" where other members support, hold space, and provide feedback with the goal of clarity and living in truth.

  • This is not group therapy.  It is an accountability group designed to help you achieve specific outcomes in your relationships, careers, health, and personal goals.

  • Members will have an exclusive invitation to a private Facebook group for additional group support and discussion.

  • Groups will be limited to 8 members.

How Much Does it Cost?

The Mastermind Costs $225 per month.  We meet weekly for the first three weeks of every month. There is a minimum of a 3-month commitment, but a one-year commitment is strongly suggested. Individuals who sign up for a 12-month commitment receive 25% off the monthly subscription.


Costs include enrollment in the Finding Peace Online Course (a $299 value)

All Active participants are also eligible for 25% off any other products, courses, retreats, or other events hosted by Finding Peace Consulting.

How to Join

Join the select and elite group of men who are taking the courageous step to transform their lives.  Apply today.



Identify which Finding Peace Mastermind fits your schedule



Once you are approved, you will receive an email with instructions on how to join the meetings.